sage, honey, of course you make sense... perfect sense...
Quoting sage:
I know there is no certainty in life -- but I still believe in intention. Even if my h. wasn't guaranteed to be with me forever, I think there was a time when it was his INTENTION to stay.
know, let me ask you something? if H were to say "I'm not done trying. I still want to work on it." would that be good? good enough?
My H and I are still suffering the fallout from Wednesday's crash. It brought me back to exactly why I wanted out in the first place, and also back to those feelings like it's been warped all along. IT DOESN'T MEAN I WANT TO THROW IN THE TOWEL! It means that we have promises to make, promises to keep, and we absolutely must not stop owning our own happiness.