thanks for the encouragement everyone.....We went to the wireless store to split our family plan into 2 individual lines....she knows I watch the phone records for when and how many times she texts the OM. I had every right.......my name was on the account. she had no right going behind my back. until this happened I never looked at it. but that's over with....we're still getting along very well.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF