DB'ing in Reverse...

[sage]

Sage, I hope you don't think I was calling you out or anything, but I was thinking of you when I wrote this post and am really glad you responded. Thank you very much

wow, you're good. I didn't even realize ...

did my answer make sense? 'cause as much as I want my m. to work, I too have a limit -- I want "me" back, too. and sometimes the uncertainty just gets to be too much and I convince myself that I could find someone who wants to be with ME. who can at least tell me that I'm #1.

when my h. believed our m. was over he sought out someone else, had an affair. knowing what I know about how it feels, well, I can't do that. so when I think our m. is over, I think about leaving.

Sage