Jeff, I'm really sorry..I wish I could say I don't know how you feel because this hurt is so unbearable at times.And I wouldn't wish it on anyone..well ok maybe the OW..and every other person out there who goes after someone else's spouse.I too have to start Keeping busy more..it's so hard right now since School is out. I'm not working and not taking classes. So I have lots of free time on my hands.. \:\(

Me: 36 H: 34
2 D's: 10+13
Married: 13 yrs(Together 15)
Found out about A-Jan 08
Finally ended April 08..I hope??
Struggling to co-exist in peace