It's hard to let it go phil. It sure does suck but even talking about it with her pushes her away. Let her dress up and act like a slut. My W does that too...and more. I have to deal with OM#1 and OM#2. You can't control what she does, you cant reason with her, I just learned in my thread that you can't teach a WAW and that causing her guilt is not going to help either. I realized that in that case I have "nothing" to say to her.
Hardest thing that I do every day is force myself not to contact her. Don't bite when she fishes for a fight...harder than hell I know but do the best you can.
You are making progress...keep it up.
Last edited by HopefultotheEnd; 07/13/0804:12 AM.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
