water2moon: I am asking anyone who has gone through a similar sitch. how did you forget the affair? Or at least manage to control your anger?
Sorry you are here, I struggle with these issues every day. How do you forget the affair ? you don't unless, your spouse is truly sorry and wants to reconcile. Then you give them a chance. otherwise if they don't give up OM/OW then you have no choice. you and/or I are not in control of what our spouse does
Controlling anger, wow, I hold it in so tight inside of me, I want to explode. I know that C should help but I don't have extra money for that. Best I can do to hold back the anger is to keep busy (GAL), work hard, play hard, have fun and try to forget. People here keep telling me that things will get better. I hope so, I hope time heals my broken heart.
Mean old stubborn German
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
