I just wrote a "closure" letter to my H last night. Saying that he was a great friend and I will remember all of the good times we had together. And that in the future, when our emotions aren't so current, I would like to be able to be friends again with him. It was very healing for me to write. Not sure if I will ever give the letter to him, but it was helpful to me.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08