My H went through that phase where he didn't want people to know what was going on. But now he isn't really speaking to me at all (which is annoying just a few days before he moves out because I have moving out questions to ask him).
Jeff I still think it sounds like you are doing so WELL!
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08