Quote: So, what's the deal with packing??? You say you want your R to work more than anything and yet you're packing??? Giving ultimatums. Withhold your own emotions until they're just as powerful a bomb as anything I could drop???
a hopeless reflex action!! oh the many times I packed up h's stuff in garbage bags practically pushing him out the door after discovering his a despite the fact we were supposedly working on things..did I want him to leave? NO!! but then why did I pack up his stuff and tell him to screw?? a reflex action I assume...same as when your hands go up in the air when you've just had enough...what purpose does throwing your hands in the air serve? none? why does it occur? who the hell knows..a reflex action is all I can say...a hopeless reflex..a cry for help..a please stop me from doing this..tell me you don't want to go or you don't want me to go.
Quote: For all the talking, apologizing, and attempting to understand, I think we have made a small step or two in the right direction...
