Quoting Jamesjohn: char, is NOT talking about the R, about SOME of what you're "feeling", a "more of the same" behaviour that got you guys to this point in the first place?
Is this some of where the "disconnected" feeling may have come about? On BOTH of your parts?
awww crud... i thought i wasn't supposed to have R talks
i get yall (btw - thanks to all y'all for your insight...)