5 yr DBer, "Joint" D now in progress

[RSmiles]

So, tomorrow is H's birthday- I know, nice timing, huh? I'm wondering if I should get him something or just a card. H has demanded that I replace the TV remote control for him since the dogs chewed on it while I was in the other room. Maybe I should get him that- but then I feel like he's pushing me around again. What would you do?? Gift or no gift?