my crazy mess part 3...

[christarn]

FG~ ok, I think I have a plan...I know, I know...i have him-hawed a while with this...but know H a little to well, that anger needed to subside before i made a move.

monday...will text i think i am going to stick with "our plan" for now...a simple text...follow me for a minute...(been doing mental work!! LOL!! Can't say the more I think about this...today I have some thinking time, he really called me to "chat" about the pool. Last year the pump broke...new pump, 300-500$$...he didn't bat an eye to fix that...why now, why does he need my help now? this pool "drama" doesn't make sense to me. I am fully aware "legally" the pool is mine...but looking at this rationally, it is sitting on his property, if he wanted to "bulldoze" it...I haven't been to his house in 4 months...it's not like I would know....or could do a heck of a lot about it...he would just have to pay me my part of the pool, if we would D.....I don't know FG...I think the phone call was a reaction from him regarding the texts...pool was a starting place...i did the bozo no-no bringing up the R/M.

If during the course of the texts he asks about the pool, my proposition is going to be to have a company from town go down and "assess" the pool at my cost...if they can fix it, i will have them fix it, and close it. I want/need some type of understanding from him...this is where it gets hard...he will leave it closed if he isn't going to take care of it, because I can not/ will not bail him out when he is not taking care of it...leave the dang thing shut until we reach some type of agreement...ok part of that is me venting too!! this is as well...I just don't want to fork over a bunch of money, fix the sitch, then he wants to keep using the pool...for a few weeks...and then stops caring for it, and we are right back here in a month or two...unfortunately, I know him all to well, and could so see this happening. damned if I do, damned if I don't!!

thoughts/suggestions!