Sorry. I wish your "husband" understood better the failures he is setting his own children up for. He lacks insight into himself and insight into that the grass is greener on the other side. Sounds selfish to me... but then again, that is what society and the P.C. crowd tells us today isn't it... everything is secondary to our own happiness... no matter the cost. Would that these WAS's were intelligent enough to wake up and smell the coffee. No justice for those of us dealing with a WAS. I am sorry he doesn't allow you into his walled off self and let you be a part of what he promised you would have, a family. What a way to live. Hearts are torn to shreds and there is nothing we "left in the dust" spouses can do... just watch our kids suffer as a result and watch our spouses feel empowered and falsely happy at someone else's expense. Me:39, 2nd marriage, I want to work at it all! I want to DB. W:40, 3rd marriage, she wants to D. T:5 M:4 D:3, My other D:17,20 Separated:5 months, problems most of R. D:no one has filed anything Me: holding my breath hoping for a miracle W:I hate you, you don't understand my feelings Me:I don't hate her, and I don't understand
