I do understand your feelings..least I think I do...discovering what ones love language is really isn't all that easy is it! I still get confused about my own.
as far as mat reading your journal..no it's not right...no it's not fair but then again he's scared and confused and maybe just maybe thought there'd be something in there that might offer him some insight....thing is he's interperting your words wrong.
put yourself in his shoes and read your ponderings...does kinda sound like your not happy with him...does kinda sound like your thinking of d...does kinda sound like you want god to send you someone else and you'd trade holidays with your kids to have that someone else.
I don't really know where else to go with my thoughts right now.
