I talked to the in-laws. they have made it clear to her and I that OM is NOT welcome there. Also been doing some more things me-related on my own. as for W, Not asking her where she goes, what's she's doing or who with, just asking how her day was at work, and offering to pick up groceries or something to eat for dinner. Other than that, just telling her "have a good night and God be with you"
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
