Came across this on the web after I googled "how to detach from cheating spouse" I got to the part about Jesus and turning the other cheek and realized how true it really is. I need to stop imagining him with the OW. I am consumed with scenarios I create in my mind. I wonder if she is some beautiful goddess and if he'll always love her and never me..Yet he did tell me the other day that I am the one who had his heart first, yet I am not allowing his heart to feel the same again. If only I could detach..really detach..I have to do this..Please forgive my ramblings..I may have to do that a lot in the near future..
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace
