Quoting erinr: Did I do the right thing? Only time will tell.
Well for me, to my embarrassment , it took my W dropping the bomb of a PA and wanting a D in the same breath to open my eyes to what I needed to change ... so some of us guys do have some pretty thick skulls.
Quoting erinr: I hope some of this got through to him. I have drawn a line in the sand and I'm gonna have to stick with it. I hope he doesn't make me have to show him the consequences of inaction.
I hope so too, but if he doesn't seem to move on this, there still are some things you can do to re-enforce your stance. Such as next Monday or Tuesday, leave out Sunday's classified from the newspaper folded to the "apartments for rent" section with some circled in red left on the kitchen counter ... if he looks at it or inquires about it, don't throw it away, but fold it up and place it by/in your purse or the like ... just might jar him enough to act before the final ultimatum.
, it took my W dropping the bomb of a PA and wanting a D in the same breath to open my eyes to what I needed to change ... so some of us guys do have some pretty thick skulls. 
