Hi Erin, Sorry to hear you are back because its not going so well.
Quoting erinr: For the last 8 months I have done everything I know how. I have db'd my ass off, read everything I could get my hands on, went to see a MC without him since he refused to go, gave him his space and tried to make life as pleasant as possible. I have required nothing of him and that's the problem. In the last few weeks, I have told him the things that I need to feel better and to feel loved.
This sounds sooo familar to someone else on this board. Have you visited lostlove's threads? Back in March, she wrote nearly verbatim what I read above. Yet she manage to find something different that worked to help turn it all around for her. She began to journal daily here three positive things that happened to her each day ... no matter how small. Before giving H the boot, take some time to read thru her threads ... it might give you a different path to try first.
