Addie, ROT and Karen,

Thanks 4 the concern. I do not care about the stuff. It is just that every single agreement that we have she breaks. How are we going to manage coparenting if she wont honor anything?

She can have all the little stuff. I really do not care.

I am strongly contemplating going to court instead of settling. I have a very good chance at no alimony and the same custody. I have definite evidence of a causal relationship between the D and the OM and my attorney thinks that I am nuts to pay any alimony.

I wanted to be nice. As always nice gets me more drama and stress. Maybe I should give her something to be pissed about and go to war. I am so tired of it all.