How are things going? Your post here is several days old. I don't ususally check beyond page 1 here , but something told me to do it today.
Sorry to hear about the backsliding. Have you two talked some more? Any compromises? Boundaries set?
I think it was crappy of your H to take the KIDS over to ff's house, knowing you can't stand her, then to lie about it (well, withhold the truth at any rate), THEN to admit he did so because you'd be upset???
Really! I have to agree with you...if he KNEW It would bother you so much then he SHOULDN'T have gone there!
But perhaps it was the way you broached this? I'm sure were it me, I would have, well, freaked. Perhaps a calmer approach might have yielded better results? Made him feel less "controlled" (as in he had to be sneaky so as not to upsept you) and more "understanding" of why although HE might think visiting her is okay, it's STILL a very touchy issue for you. And you'd appreciate it if he'd keep that in mind.
, but something told me to do it today.
