I am so frustrated! H and me and D14 went to the bookstore. She is to pick one book out- cant decide- puts 5 in front of the cashier and I ask if one is on sale. I put it back saying it is too expensive and she says who cares? I say dont say that and H gets in the car all stone faced telling me I had a "disturbing" exchange. We get home and he says I was really nasty the way I say it and I should talk to D14. If D14 had said that to D7, he says he would have slapped her as in I am so nasty. I ask D14 about it when H left for the grocery, and she says no I didnt say anything rude. I am upset and tired of being pushed around and made to feel bad. Who's reality is it? I feel like he is in his own and noone else is there. Shay Shiny? any ideas about this ?