Hi Saus16. Sorry to jump in, but I read what you posted and I hope you may be able to give me some insight. If you wanted to D. your H. what made you change your mind? If you look at my posts called "wife complains I defend myself", can you see any rays of hope left. I really do want my M. and the only thing that seems to hinder it is her analysis that my anxiety and/or depression (both her diagnosis) is the problem in our M. I am trying to hang in there in my own M. but I am losing hope.
Me: 39 "W": 40 D:3 D:16, had sole cust. but now is living with my ExW:40 D:20 M:4 rocky yrs. My second, her third M.