you are taking control of your life and that is so important right now. It will be a bit bumpy for a while but very important if you and H do get to building a fresh R.
I haven't had much contact w/H since I've been just laying low, although he has been trying to bait me with E-mail that needs a response & it got a little bumpy trying to keep from engaging him.
I had all S-5's overnight thing's ready at the door yesterday so he wouldn't have to come in. What a sad/scared looking H he was, & what a calm, happy W I was (& dressed pretty fine too);
Dragged both hands over his face & said; H-"How are you?" H-"Uh, are you staying here or going out tonight?" W-"Yes."
He stood there, looking like he had something to say, but no surprise, said nothing.
He walked off w/out a word until he was out the gate & then I got a terse "See you tomorrow."