HI Shay.

I'm a bit confused...you came home and made derogatory comments about some other guy leaving his wife and your H took it as you being mean to HIM??

WAS it an indirect way of letting him know how you feel about "that issue?"

I know that at times I actuall SNORT in disgust when certain topics come up...excuses for cheating and such. In part, no doubt, it's to make it clear to CJ just where I stand on that!...probably doesn't make HIM feel too great though .

I guess I'm a bit confused by you saying that you're not a good listener and blame too much...where does this fit in?

MC is a great idea...sure helped us sort through some yucky stuff!

SO you ARE still going to this dinner, right? Well knock their socks of darling, we KNOW you can do it! Make your H proud!

Shiny