Its not that she is doing laundry in your house. It matters that you feel she is checking in on you and snooping, and that pisses you off.
No its the fact that she has completely shut me out of her life, and she comes to our home and pretty much acts like she still lives here.
She comes to the house when I'm at work. She doesn't bother to talk to me about anything. I get little tidbits of conversation with her.
Then I think things are improving and then she starts acting noncommunicative again. It's like she hates me. Says she doesn't. Then she doesn't even want to talk to me on the phone.
You know I think she is afraid to talk to me, because she wants to run still. I'm thinking that she doesn't want to change her mind yet.
I was reading Bworl post to someone and he said he couldn't believe the woman he loved did a complete 180. Loving devoted mother who would never mention the words divorce. To a completly different personality.