Plodding towards my Path With Heart

[SuperDad]

OK,
I completely lost track of where ya'll were going with this, so I am just going to comment on FLTC's post!

What if the spouse "sees the light"?

I am done, so this worry is no longer there. More of a challenge is expaining to people that my STBXW lives in my guest room! I'll definitely be glad when we are just a "normal" divorced family...boy that sounds weird, doesn't it. It is what it is.

It was wonderful not to contantly be expecting the "ISD": Improvised Spouse Device to detonate when you least expect it. Any conversation with my W. is like the game "Whack-a-Mole" You just never know where the mole will appear next, and how big of a charge he'll be carrying.

LOL! Perfect description, I think we may have married the same woman!

Being without alcohol for a year was an epiphany to me. My thought processes had never been more clear. I got by on 5 hours of sleep a night, and felt great.

Funny, the same thing happened to me...I did not completely give up drinking, just cut way back and started exercising a lot more. All of a sudden, 6 hours of sleep felt like a lot. Of course, the occasional 15 min power nap after a long workout may have an influence as well.

Adios amigos, SD