First clear something up for me...it's your H's current C who said "if your heart's not in it you should get out?" of the M?
And while telling you this, your H said his heart IS in it???
Do you feel he was sincere when he said the latter? If so, then I don't see a problem with his seeing the C. Perhaps it was more of a challenge question to get him to focus on PUTTING His heart into this!
And as for the other MC, well so what if he feels bad about having vented and lashed out on you..was he/she a good MC? Good Rapport? Goal Oriented?
I know that CJ had to face TWO different C's to whom he'd LIED, Lied to my face in front of...me bawling my eyes out...he just sucked it up and went back.
I AM curious about this:
Quote: H said OP called 3 months ago and they had a closure on why it happened etc. H says this is 95% over.
Huh? What? Once you have "Closure" on something, isn't it 100% over???
And FYI, OW#2 was HOUNDING CJ for "closure" after he made it clear it was over...she demanded he fly across country to say goodbye in person...when he refused, she threatened to fly HERE and just show up on our doorstep!
It just all ended (as far as I know and believe) with an e-mail from me to her...telling her we were celebrating having her OUT Of our M...and one from her back to ME.
And as for the biting comments...I unleashed a few of those when I was getting "details" from CJ. ...I think it was the build-up of rage.
Thoughts come to mind now and then (infrequently) but I no longer feel the need to say these kinds of things. I SURE did at the start, though.
...I think it was the build-up of rage.
