Help, anyone around? I know H plans to talk with me today about the lack of filing yesterday.

What do I do if he "takes me up on my offer" of wanting to bring by the papers for me to sign and file together, instead of being served. I feel like me holding out all this time, is the only reason he hadn't filed up until now. HE knows that will devestate me, and he's been avoiding it. I know he is at the point now though, that he WILL do it.

Should I save myself the agony and say."Ok, bring them by and I'll sign" or should I just go through the pain of being served and make him do that step? I really feel like THAT is the talk that is coming.

Help.

Chris

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Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!