I'm sorry Jeff. I loved all the messages you were doing. She sounds like my H. Doesn't want to look happy, or do ANYTHING that could possible be construde as giving you ANY hope. I want to shout. "you know, it IS ok to laugh with me once in awhile." He'll start and then catch himself and turn it off. When I read this sitch, I swear it sounded like the same kind of thing.

God forbid they show any happiness with us at all. I'm so sorry. Switch it up, keep your chin up. No matter what she says (or doesn't say) she IS seeing all of this.

Chris

__________
Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!