Sorry things are so f'ed up with H. It is really hurting your kids and he doesn't seem to have the tools to try and help fix it....so like my H.
H always said he would "talk" to S but he never did. Or he'd make a quick comment like, "I don't think we will ever live together buddy" and then disappear while I picked up the pieces....
Hope your weekend goes better that the past couple days. Thinking of you...
