1. Keep going out to enjoy yourself. I would reccomend putting time into things that will make you a better person - volunteering I suggested earlier.
2. People dissapproving isn't enough, they have to tell your W outright that "THIS MAN is NOT welcome in MY HOME - EVER" outright to her. She needs to hear on no uncertain terms that leaving YOU means she gets ostracized from EVERYONE.
3. If you can dig anything up on OM share it with her parents. Best is to share the witness direclty with them. If one of your W's friends knew the man, invite her to your W's parents place for dinner.
We want to wake your parents into taking action. Ther'es likely a LOT they can do to pressure her.
I mentioned the thing about marital predators on another thread, but I will state it here :
1. STAY AWAY from other women. If you are trying to appear MORE MATURE to her, yourself, and her parents and friends, you DON'T look more MATURE flirting with other women. Even if you arne't flirting, don't give the OM ANYTHING to POINT the FINGER AT.
2. If you even appear like you are compromising YOURSELF MORALLY you will trash any effort you have made to look more mature. You shouldn't even be alone with other women right now at all.
3. Try to look like the model supportive husband who is devoted to her. Lappping up flattery from other women FEELS good on the short term, but it can be costly if someone catches you. Right now you will be tempted to do the same thing your wife did...stray. Don't let that happen or your dbing efforts are useless.
