As someone who knows her situation Stigmata;

I think you're selling the woman short. She's wrestled with her demons, she's gone through the pain, she's recognized her past mistakes and has learned from them. The only reason she's here on this board at all is to help others to do better than she did (without help, I would add).

She has wedding bells on her horizon again, and I wish her all the best with it -- she deserves another shot at relationship happiness. I think that this time around, when the infatuation stage of the relationship wears off, and it eventually will, that she's knowledgeable enough and determined enough to keep the passion alive for the long haul.

I wish her the best and honestly don't care what her base-line sexual orientation is. She's committed, period.

Bagheera


Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs
S25, D23, S13, S10
20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007