Got a random phone call last night from him for no particular reason that I can see except he did say before that he would call before our meeting.Was complaining about his health(again) this time a tooth abcess.I did sympathise and we chatted casually about his parents ,work,and the sale of our house. Nothing else. It takes my breath away how, on the verge of divorce after a 28 year marriage he can act as if everything was normal.When he called I was on the point of going out with my little grandaughter waiting at the door so I probably sounded a bit vague and distant.I asked him to call next week and confirm aboutThursday-so nervous; must get my thoughts clear about what I want when time comes.Wear business hat-problem is finances are bound up in whether or not we divorce so relationship issues seem unavoidable.Am praying for strength and courage.