Hi friends, Just stopping in for and update. I have not posted much for a week or so and hope everyone is seeing some progress on their R quests. We went to the lake and had a pretty good time. One thing I learned about myself is that 7 kids are stimulus overload for me! I had to take some down time and regroup instead of lashing out at everyone. h came in and asked what was wrong and took me out on a boat ride so I could get a turn at the wakeboard. I felt much better! I guess I feel like I am being taken advantage of or maybe I am one of those sensitive people that need alone time.
H is staying more. I am to get a list together and will try to do that here for my ultimate critics - all you DBers!! It may really help me if you all could look at it.
H had a bad dream about me being mad at him and female workers and bosses being mad at him too. I asked him if OW was in the dream and she was not!! Maybe she is out of his subconscious !! H started his new job and is away from that old sitch. This is good!!! He seems better and way less occupied with work to keep his mind off himself. He says he is reading alot and it is helping him a ton. His new C is helping him too he thinks. More SIL funnies: She had our auras read from a family photo!! She taped it and H heard it and said she completely "fed" the guy his answers. Interestly I am a blue aura- calm but I have some anger!! H is red and he has the need to take care of people. D1 was intelligent, D2 was like H, D3 was hell on earth- very lively. So, kind of funny but really kind of pissed me off that some clown is analyzing me from a pic!! We ran the half marathon and there is a funny picture of me absolutely dying at the finish!! I would post it here if anyone is interested- someone tell me how! But I did ok and had fun. 2 hours and 2 minutes. H ran it and D1` did the 3 mile race up in Oxford. And for Yashie- Bagel and deli shoppe afterwards-mmmmmm steamed bagels.
Today I am excited! I set up a trip with the girls from work to go to Vegas at Caesars palace in Jan for a bachelorette party- my 38 year old boss is getting married. I am so excited ! I have never done a girls trip but I am afraid H will be jealous and go backwards- not my prob right?
H was looking into a trip to Vegas for he and I told him to please continue- gave him a date of Nov 2 - day after our anniversary. Then I remember the last 2 Anniversaries and how they were not too good. Such a waste of time and people to suffer like that. But I hope I have come out better through this experience!
I had to take some down time and regroup instead of lashing out at everyone. h came in and asked what was wrong and took me out on a boat ride so I could get a turn at the wakeboard. I felt much better! I guess I feel like I am being taken advantage of or maybe I am one of those sensitive people that need alone time.
