Take the kids and go all day sat and sun. Go out have fun and get W totally out of your head.
Stay dark to her unless it is about the kids. Just tell her you really want to hang out with the kids and enjoy summer because it flies by so fast. You can just say you read somethgin or something you saw inspired you to just enjoy the weekend with them.
Then go out during the week as well with no mention of where you are going. Watch her reactions carefully.
It seems to me like you are just waiting for an opp to talk to her which will probably lead to R talk, which is bad news. I could be wrong, but that's the vibe I got from your posts.
Just trying to watch out for your well-being here and help you avoid a potential backslide.
- Scott
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