I forgot to say back when I was snooping over the phone records when I went to pay the bill I noticed a TON of calls from the ole boss man. This I think is the person she MIGHT be seeing but am only 77.775% sure. How funny would it be if they both lost their job :0 These calls are at all times of the night and early am like 2am and they talked for 39 minutes. Why I remember that I don't know but there it is. Maybe she is going for that all important raise and trying to become CEO??
Well the W filed! Was checking our account and saw that she paid the $1500 for the L! What a sickening feeling but nothing I can do now
I guess just keep on keeping on! I knew there was a reason I did not want to know how much we had in the account. Well I guess I better get busy and DB so I don't get hurt to bad. How sad after 13 years it has to come to this, but what is even more hurtful is the path she is taking to deal with this!
I'm very sorry to hear that. Wow, you've got a lot going the last few days but honestly its sounds like you've got your head in the right place. I've had nothing filed or even mention of it but from what I've read on here, its not over. You've still got time. You're right.....DB for you but you never know how it'll turn out. Stay focused and try to hang in there. Keep posting and let us know what's going on. Stay strong!
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)
I'm sorry. WTF? What mixed messages. The funniest part is that she gets so ticked off at the thought that you might have lost interest and that you might have a new woman. I really want you to pull that sense of fall-back security out from under her (180). See what others think.
Well another night of no contact with the W. Had a good time tubing but may have over done it a bit. Not enough suntan lotion and now I look like a lobster. Little to much cerveza for the ride to! Decided to skip the night out because I feel like crap and am in pain!
Don't really know how to react right now. Have a feeling that the W is just fine with no contact at all, and we will probably not have any until the kids come back. I feel she is definitely done and wrapped up in her new world Oh well I will keep up on me and see where it gets me.
D called today just to check up on me and tell me about her day back in Nebraska. She had surgery done on her fingers to remove some warts and she said it was very painful. Thank goodness FIL is a surgeon so we did not have to pay for it My S had a great time with my family, he got to play with new baby kittens and wants to bring them home, of course my niece said no to that right away. At least the kids still call, guess that is a positive
As for me keeping up on me I went from a size 36 to smaller than a 34 now Starting to lose to much weight! But I am seeing more muscle starting to form and I predict within 2 weeks my 2 pack stomach may turn into a 4 pack :0
LOL on the working out thing. I lost my weight way too fast and muscle went along with it. I'm trying to get the muscle back now.
Glad to hear about the kids. W called tonight and D had a fit cause she wanted to go over and see the cat. W sounded like she wasn't doing anything but it was late anyway. D was was over-tired.
Just play it day by day with W. She might surprise you. Gotta dive back into this book now. Check in tomoroow.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)
Well another night of no contact with the W. Had a good time tubing but may have over done it a bit. Not enough suntan lotion and now I look like a lobster. Little to much cerveza for the ride to! Decided to skip the night out because I feel like crap and am in pain!
I hope you didn't get burned up too bad. I have to always be careful with that as what remaining hair I have is red and so I am fair-skinned. I don't hang in the sun unless I have SPF 60 on, man.
Originally Posted By: jonzy
Don't really know how to react right now. Have a feeling that the W is just fine with no contact at all, and we will probably not have any until the kids come back. I feel she is definitely done and wrapped up in her new world Oh well I will keep up on me and see where it gets me.
Your instincts tell you to keep up working on yourself and your intincts are correct. You and your kids just have fun. You and "the guys" just have fun. It will cause W to stew with the 'flame set on high'. She'll be kicking herself so bad that before too long both her cheeks will be totally sore. I think my darling is probably in this stage now.
Originally Posted By: jonzy
D called today just to check up on me and tell me about her day back in Nebraska. She had surgery done on her fingers to remove some warts and she said it was very painful.
Well, at least her fingers will have a much nicer appearance in the long run. Aahh the price of vanity. lol. I hope she is doing well and that the pain has subsided. SHe sure needs those fingers for texting and internet/keyboard usage. Teenagers!
Originally Posted By: jonzy
As for me keeping up on me I went from a size 36 to smaller than a 34 now Starting to lose to much weight! But I am seeing more muscle starting to form and I predict within 2 weeks my 2 pack stomach may turn into a 4 pack :0
Glad to hear that your hard work is paying off. I am sure you will get noticed by W and females in general. That's always good for an ego boost. ANd it's further incentive to press on with your "self" work.
I am praying for you bud. Stay stong and enjoy the finish of your w/e.
Well the W actually called today!! Did not talk about much she just called to see how I was doing and if I had a good weekend. We talked about the kids and how they are having fun in Nebraska and such. She brought up no mention of retaining the L, but by the tone of her voice I could tell there is something amiss.
Oh well just another day for me. Feel like crap still but the burn is not as bad as I thought it was going to be. Lots of aloe lotion and laying in front of a fan is amazing!
Brother this is the time when you have to dig deep within yourself, keep things in prospective and 'do work' on yourself. W is just fishin at this point, step up and show her what she is going to miss, she has no clue what she is doing. She is going of gut reactions not common sense.
Stay your course keep working on yourself, stay positive!
My S had a great time with my family, he got to play with new baby kittens and wants to bring them home, of course my niece said no to that right away. At least the kids still call, guess that is a positive 