I must have missed that about the joint account.will have to go back and read ..I really hope he doesn't make you suffer anymore than he already has.It must be killing him to see how strong you are and how well you are holding up..
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace