WOW...picked up this thread when the deliberation about the letter started. You guys are great. I don't really have anything to contribute...my sitch is very new and I'm as lost about what to do as everyone else but my sitch is similar to everyone else's. The words you all have said in these last few posts have been very encouraging...and sobering. If any of you guys have time, come on over to my thread and drop some knowledge. I would value any wise counsel I can get.
Neilh23, I know the agony that you are going through. One day at a time man, this to shall pass (I try to tell myself this).
My Story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1512790&page=1#Post1512790