excellent words everyone. today was the first day in a LONG time where I got out of the house, went to a rustic cookout (beans in a pan on an open fire, hot dogs roasted on a twig) and didn't honestly care what she was doing. I had a DAMN good time. I haven't laughed that hard in 2 months. a few points. Her parents drill her all the time that they don't approve of what's going on. I doubt he'll be allowed in their home anytime soon. She is also pi$$ed that her 2 best friends are also taking my side (can't help that). I have made sure the entire town knows what she did, and people are coming up to her at work and mentioning it. She knows the heat is on. But today I realized how I can have fun without her. Did cut my hair and shaved today. she actually said my hair looked nice. I haven't heard a compliment out of her in months. But earlier today she said if i was planning on causing problems with mediation she was just going to file for D instead. but it hit me like a sack of potatoes that life goes on with her. W does not equal life.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
Did cut my hair and shaved today. she actually said my hair looked nice. I haven't heard a compliment out of her in months. But earlier today she said if i was planning on causing problems with mediation she was just going to file for D instead. but it hit me like a sack of potatoes that life goes on with her. W does not equal life.
