Have you invited him to bed with you? With the understanding that he might say no, if you time it right, he might not. I have a few friends who seem to bounce from man to man, it seems like they dont love themselves, and if you dont love yourself, how can you expect someone else to love you? What can you do to make you feel great about yourself? Something to make you feel proud and accomplished might help you feel independent and may just catch your H's eye.
What do you want your girls to gain from this? Maybe instead of looking at it as how you are screwing them up you could take this as a chance to teach them something incredible about strong women. Not that I can tell you how to do that, but think about it.
Blue, H works evenings, from 10 Pm -6Am..started this shift in August of 2007..started sleeping with her shortly after..the nights he is off he stays up, says that he's used to that schedule and can't sleep..so of course I accuse him of not wanting to be near me..back in April when I saw that he was really tryign he made an effort to come to bed..he held me and we made love.that lasted 2 weeks than he started staying up again on his days off..so that started all of the fights..
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace
