Sounds like you do need some new goals. I know when I start feeling this way is because I have stopped shootin for something. Then I start thinking how bad things are and that they should be better. At that time it take a bit I realize things are bad becuase Im allowing them to be. So get back on the horse and do this thing.
If you look back at your thread you have come miles from where you were 6 months ago. So maybe you can go back and look at your old threads and see how much this really has improved.
Remeber that as a general rule that for every year of marriage it takes one month to fix this.
