True..that's probably why i'm so p'd all the time..These OP have some nerve..I know that my H's OW was very upset that he stopped taking her out on dates once I found out..and she was upset that he couldn't stay with her for Christmas..pity..
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace
I guess in some sad way it makes me feel better to know how insecure ow is feeling even though stbxh is feeding her a bunch of lies about me and what a bad wife I have been. She deserves to feel insecure.. It's part of what you get when you screw a married man..
By the way, I AM open to other ideas of how to screw with ow's insecurities.. just for fun
All in all it's been a good weekend for me.. On the upswing for the moment. Life is good when D4 is with me (where she is supposed to be!)
By the way, I AM open to other ideas of how to screw with ow's insecurities.. just for fun
Is OW ever in H's car? If so open a condom and put the wrapper under the passenger seat. Or put a condom between the seats...on the passengers side of course (as you open the door). She may not think its you, but she'll think its someone. If you really wanted to be evil you could go buy a naught lace thong and put that in his backseat, hidden enough so that it would take some doing to find it. The best part about that is, no matter which one of them finds it, they are going to automatically assume the other one is up to something... LOL
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
If you really wanted to be evil you could go buy a naught lace thong and put that in his backseat, hidden enough so that it would take some doing to find it. The best part about that is, no matter which one of them finds it, they are going to automatically assume the other one is up to something... LOL
Yes, that's brilliant!!! Olive, are you sure you don't want to do something like that??? And of course they don't really trust each other anyway, so makes it even more fun!!! Sorry, for my evil, but I feel zero sympathy for OWs!!! Karen
I'm with Karen, I have absolutely NO sympathy whatsoever for people who raid other peoples' marriages for their own self gratification. Evil or not it would certainly be entertaining...dontcha' think?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Call and act like you are with the 1-800-STD line and say that your H was listed as one of the multiple partners of the OW and you were calling to let him know that she is a carrier of gonnorhea!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I have one I would think would be awesome... Call and act like you are with the 1-800-STD line and say that your H was listed as one of the multiple partners of the OW and you were calling to let him know that she is a carrier of gonnorhea!
ROFLMAO...that is too funny. It would be priceless if you could keep a straight face. You could say that you are with the X Clinic and you were calling because a partner of H's had tested positive for an STD (pick one) and that H and OW had been listed as a people that needed to contacted for testing. Sick and wrong, but funnier than hell.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option