To all you people who have been thru their spouse's A...
How long does it take until you REALLY feel secure and safe again? For me it's been 6 months since the end of the A. I'm sure the A is completely over, H is wonderful, our relationship is great, but I find myself with constant sadness/fear/doubts/insecurity that it could happen again.
How long does it take to really feel secure again? I'm sure it's different in every relationship, but I'm curious to hear the feedback.
