Well the thing is we can't afford the DB counseling or anything. The only reason we are able to afford this counseling is because it is a free service provided to us through the military. We are seeing a Christian counselor and he was really nice on the phone when I called to set it up. The only drawback is that we only get 6 free sessions and after that we would have to pay for it. So I'm hoping that 6 can get us off to a great start and at least focused on our problems. What are some warning signs that things are not working out during the counseling? What should I do if things turn sour?
I feel like 6 sessions, spaced out by at least a week or two, will be enough to get us started communicating and learning how to solve our problems on our own. Especially with all the new things I have learned from Surrendered wife.
All I know is that it is a step further toward solving out problems than we have ever gone before and I have hope again and that is keeping me going.
