Originally our first court date was March, then H said his L obviusly couldn't work with mine(she was a cheap $500) lawyer who didn't want to do anything and wanted my L to do all the work, but excuse me H was suing me for Divorce! Anway March got pushed back to April, because H got prick L who was new to the case. H wouldn't talk about anything, just thought we should stay with status quo because it works(he had a little extra money), I was using everything to pay bills. Anyway that led to May where H was furious that we weren't divorced but hadn't come with any suggestions on how to make this work financially.

I asked for a mediator and my L said that was just an extra 6 or 700 dollars and that I would be better off asking to meet with the judge informally(Pre-Trial). That is what we had 3 weeks ago. Didn't matter what I wanted, he wants a divorce so by golly he is going to get one. I was basically put down by his prick L because I wanted to work to save my marriage and my family. At that point I told my L fine, you do what you need to do because there is nothing legally I can do but I will not cash in my retirements plans just to make it easy on him.

And so here I am.

kat

Last edited by kat727; 07/12/08 01:01 AM.
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