I did confront H today by email about the dishonesty (I was afraid I would lose it if I talked to him over the phone). He actually slipped on something he mentioned in his last email and I was able to point out the fact that he's been in contact with OW. This way he doesn't realize that I've snooped. I told him that our M cannot be repaired until he stops all contact with her and that I will not live with dishonesty. I told him that I cannot believe any of the beautiful things he's saying to me when he's still pursuing OW.
I'll just leave it at that for now.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
