3 years he has been at this, I suspect it was his fathers sudden death as the main trigger, that was sept 04, there were other work related factors that happened in the year or so before that so we could say he as been at the whole thing for at least 5 years
Mine started in March, 04. So I have been at this more than 4 years. H didn't move out until August, 2005, the day before my 50th birthday. Mine is mean and hateful to me most of the time. Usually by email occasionally in person. He mostly avoids any contact with me. I am still praying hard for his salvation. I still have hope, despite most people thinking I have lost my mind.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
