Karen, they are so deluded.

I have told wife several times before, "Yes, I know you want out, but at what price?"

The question was for financial and emotional cost.

Considering her bills, one paycheck is short about $100 to be able to cover the rent of her new place. She gets $300 for child support, but will start to give that back to ex, because S14 is moving in with his dad. She may have to pay HIM child support if he goes through the court. That means that the other check in the month she gets has to cover the additional $100 for the rent. The rest has to cover her secret phone(I think she pays this, not sure though), electricity, groceries, gas(a killer), a lot of credit cards.

That doesn't include if I take her off of the car insurance and separate her cell phone that is on my plan.

Considering how we have been struggling right now, living paycheck to paycheck, I just don't see it.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."