Sounds like good, slow steady progress for you and H!
Dont' sell yourself short here, the progress appears to be just as much yours as H's. H may be getting more comfortable, but I also see that you aren't quite so needy or pressuring H to make decisions. Sometimes in this hurry up and get it done yesterday world, we forget about the need for humans to take things at their own individual pace. We all move to different rhythms, it is our ability or inability to synchronize those rhythms that determine lasting partnerships.
