Hey Shiny! I would take you for a ride anytime! maybe I will get one of those "you are hot" notes like you? I am really getting positive about my H seeing a C and his response since then has been very affectionate and humble. Almost like he feels better and relieved and looks at me like he appreciates me. I wonder if the C thinks I am crazy for hanging with him. I dont know why I shy away from hearing his innermost thoughts- I guess I hated hearing all that crazy stuff out him for the last 2 yrs. He used to talk about how he was in love with 2 women, we are just different, he doesnt trust ME, blah blah and the feeling that I didnt know this person anymore and his lack of reality in his ideas. I need to work on this because I think maybe he may say some good stuff these days or at least bring us closer. Fear of intimacy? hmmmm. Fear of spelling it wrong? Doesnt even look right on paper!
H said last night that C told him not to change anything until they met again in 2 weeks. Does this sound good?
Shay